MARRIAGE

Marriage is an important happening in everybody’s life. Good or Bad. I was having some thoughts about the same. I have been all of myself for quiet some time and suddenly some body enters my life. I earn and spend everything on buying new mobiles and gadgets, suddenly somebody express her idea against it. I go on leave, sometime in a bus, sometime on train or flight; she says train is good for spending time together. I like “So you think you can dance”, while she likes ‘Wild Planet’. I wonder the brilliance of Stephen Hawking; while she say Prathiba Patil is a great personality. I feel like watching the TV overnight, suddenly she gives her opinion about that. Having used to spend the life as I like suddenly an entry in your life, which is going to affect. Good or Bad, it is going to affect. Because, I am, what I am.

I was speaking with a friend of mine. He expressed a general fear about the upcoming society. One may feel that it is rhetoric, old school thought but are we ready for that? Have a thought. In yesteryears we used to work and one fine day we get married and get on somehow. We have a homemaker to have a peaceful married life. Sensible persons make it as beautiful life. Is it the same today? We marry and hear the counterpart to the effect, ‘I have to switch my job, present one is not so prospective!’, ‘For my career, I should change my work place!’, ‘This city is too small for my profile, why don’t YOU switch according to mine?’ Yeah, I may be sounding too conventional or irrational, but think deeply and try replying for the above situations. When You have been working, staying away from the home, You cook, fill water, clean your room, press your clothes, do such pity things. Hoping this will end soon, after your marriage. With the sudden change in the environment and the society, you feel ashamed of your own thought that it will end soon. You are afraid that somebody coming into your life, may give you glance and ask, ‘Why not You?’ Got a reply?